What WON'T Work
Ok, let us begin.
You should already know that drugs, alcohol, lotions, man-made devices, or concentrating on sports statistics is not the way to control your orgasm.
Let's look at this list again: Commonly reported self-help techniques. (IMPORTANT: these options DO NOT completely solve your problem)
Getting drunk
Long-term psychoanalysis
Frequent masturbation
Using one or more condoms
Tranquilizers
Creams, sprays, or gels, that "numb" the penis
Testosterone injections
With these self help techniques you have no control or true confidence in your own abilities.
Also, another important point that I have not talked about yet is that most of these self-help techniques depend on external products: alcohol, store-bought lotions, condoms, etc. Once the product or the effects of the product wear off or runs out, or you find yourself in a situation where the products are not available, you will be left on your own.
The idea is to be able to control your orgasm anytime and anywhere.
But how do you do this?
What WILL work?
Learning to recognize and control the muscles that contract during ejaculation.
Once you learn the techniques you can have many intense orgasms an hour, day or night, with or without a partner.
STOP! This is the most difficult hurdle for most people to get over. The idea that men can have several orgasms an hour is so foreign to most people that their immediate reaction is to turn the page.
They think, "Ah -ha! Here is the catch!" Don't think that way! Leave your skepticism behind for just a few more moments.
As I mentioned to you before, the way to achieve true sexual mastery is only possible when you become the owner of your orgasm.
In the next few paragraphs I am going to explain everything about the kind of orgasm that I am talking about.
What comes to your mind when I say that you have to become the owner of your orgasm?
Are you thinking that perhaps I am talking about some psychological mumbo jumbo? Or maybe you are thinking that I am trying to get you involved in some spiritual journey? Is something like this in your mind?
Well, let me tell you that the kind of orgasm that I am talking about is not even close to the orgasms you have been experiencing so far in your life.
See, the kind of orgasm that you are used to is what is normally called a traditional or immature orgasm. I dislike traditional immature orgasms now that I've learned sexual mastery.
The Root Causes of Premature Ejaculation
Well, immature traditional orgasms are rooted in fear and feelings of insecurity. Each traditional or immature orgasm a man experiences only reinforces these fears and feelings.
I'd like you to think of "pre-mature" as "immature" from here on in.
Where do these fears and feelings come from?
Most males begin to masturbate at a very early age. Because most cultures frown on public displays of sexual gratification or urges, young boys learn to masturbate in private. Quickly and quietly, with the door securely locked, hiding all evidence afterward.
Quite often boys are teased and made fun of for masturbating. We connect all of this with feelings of shame and fear of being caught.
"I am doing something bad and I don't want to be caught. I'd better hurry and get it over with." The body is "thinking" this even if the conscious mind or inner dialogue isn't.
You should know that old habits die hard!
These feelings (urgency, shame, guilt, fear of being "caught", embarrassment) are all just habits that are linked to your feelings of approaching orgasm.
So, what new habits do we have to learn to replace the old habits? What kind of tricks or techniques will allow us to experience the full potential of our sexuality without worrying about having an orgasm too quickly?
I call this new way of experiencing orgasms: Orgasm Control.
It is a revolutionary concept that I am sure will soon change the way all couples will be enjoying each other sexually. It is simply amazing!
I am going to start by explaining to you step by step the different components of this amazing sexual practice. I call them: The Components of Sexual Success.
Together, they make up the Orgasm Control system.
Let me ask you a question before we start. Do you think that in order for something to work and to be successful it has to be very complicated, difficult, and expensive?
If you do, you better think again. I do not know why, but people tend to think that simple and easy things do not work.
The majority of them think that if something is relatively easy to do or to accomplish, or if it costs relatively nothing, then it is not worth trying because it is not going to work.
Are you one of them?
STOP THINKING THAT WAY!
In just a few minutes you will find that learning these techniques is one of the simplest, easiest, and most inexpensive ways that you will ever find to make huge changes to your sex life (of course, if you follow exactly my instructions).
Having said this, PLEASE DO NOT BE SKEPTICAL!
Do not doubt this opportunity that is knocking on your door right now because you think it is not for you, or because you think it is "too easy for you."
Remember, in order for you to gain sexual mastery you have to believe that you can become a sexual master. If it is not in your mind, you will more than likely not achieve it.
So, pay close attention to everything and do not form any conclusions until you get to the last word.
Take my word that this 'could' be the beginning of a life full of incredible sex, deeper intimacy and a more fulfilling life with your partner.